I recently ended up on a talk radio show based in my hometown of Calgary. “Is this Rae Spoon?” asked the interviewer. “Yes, it is,” I replied. “And you are transgender, right?” “Yes, I am.” “And we’re supposed to use a different word for you?”…In over 10 years, through the hundreds of interviews I’d done with people firing questions at me about being transgender, I had always tried to avoid answering the ones that sounded like they were something off of Jerry Springer.
It was a gruelling schedule. I came to deeply respect the life of the touring musician as I battled reoccurring ear infections and worriedly Googled the symptoms for scurvy after eating at McDonald’s three times in one day, and enlisted our coats and bags to construct makeshift bunks on the overnight bus rides.